Girlfriend Complains About BF's Small Manhood To Her Friends, And He Doesn't Know How To Proceed
If you really love someone, there are certain things that should not be brought up outside of your relationship, especially a small manhood. This guys girlfriend tells her friends and he is beside himself.
These are the facts, TMI style:
I'm 3.5 inches long and my girlfriend doesn't like it. We have the same best friend, let's call him Mike. Now Mike and my girlfriend were talking and she started telling him how small my dick was and how I wasn't satisfying her.
Mike isn't a very mature person, and he proceeded to tell everyone we knew. Now everyone's making fun of me for it. They keep making small penis jokes and it hurts.
I'm really sensitive about it. I didn't have sex with my girlfriend until 10 months into the relationship because I was scared of what she would say, of what she might say to others.
I'm really pissed off at her because I told her I was sensitive about it, and then she goes and basically tells everyone about it. Sorry if this sounds dramatic, but it feels like a betrayal of my trust. I don't have much confidence and this just makes me not want to leave my room ever again.
Am I overreacting or am I in the right for being angry at her?
She betrayed your confidence, when she knew how much of a sensitive issue that is for you.
To me, that's an absolute deal breaker, and I'd end the relationship immediately.
No trust no dealGiphy
Dude, all of these people are a**holes, you need them all out of your life. Starting with your GF and your friend.
Your GF's betrayal is horrendous, she has no respect for you or your relationship. You now won't be able to trust her with anything. Trust is the cornerstone of a relationship.
Who the f*** takes advantage of a lover/friend's insecurities like that? A**holes. A**holes do, OP.
You need these people out of your life. This is so unacceptable on so many levels for everyone involved. I mean seriously? How much more disrespectful can you f*******get of someone who is supposed to trust you?
She's not a keeper. And you should realize that there are plenty of actual, mature women out there who will love you and not betray you. This girl is way too immature to be in a serious relationship
Don't be definedGiphy
Break up with her and lose your best friend. Don't let your dick size define you.
From a ladies perspective...Giphy
If she loved and respected you she wouldn't have been ranting about it at all, never mind to someone who is gossipy and immature. My breasts are an A cup, if my husband ever ranted to any of my friends about how they are too small to satisfy him they would just think he was bizzare and wouldn't view him too kindly, and neither would I. It is a physical feature one can't easily change, and maybe don't even want to.
Not overreacting, underreacting.
This was insanely insensitive of her, and a dealbreaker for many. Also, Mike isn't a good friend if he not only accepts this info but then spreads it and taunts you over it.
Drop her and your friend like a couple bags of steaming hot cat s***.
I'm sorry they did that to you, it's very cruel, and really unacceptable
Get rid of the rude peopleGiphy
Your girlfriend and your "best friend" suck
Being mad is okGiphy
Yes you definitely have a right to be angry at her. However, to be fair, she told one person and Mike told "everyone." So you should also be angry at Mike. Sounds like neither your gf or mike are good for you.
It's off limitsGiphy
To most people that sort of thing doesn't matter, but bothersome "flaws" that friends have are off limits for teasing
It's just not coolGiphy
My best friend is a guy, and mutual friend of myself and my boyfriend. I do not, ever, under any circumstances, b**** to said friend about my boyfriend, because it's bad firm to b***** about your dude to a dude, ESPECIALLY a dude your dude is friends with.
That's f***ed up and really b****y. Your sex life (including penis size!) Is no ones business outside of your relationship! Her telling someone (especially a male who is known to be immature) that you're not satisfying her is extremely inappropriate. No you're not being dramatic, you have every right to be hurt and angry. I would not want to stay with someone like that.
Dodging bullets and being optimisticGiphy
She's a petty b****. Dump her ass and be thankful you've dodged a bullet. Don't let dick size get you down. I've known women who have worked with less.
"It wasn't me!"
There's not much you can do when the righteous fist of the law comes down on you. Call it a mix-up, or call it a mistake, if someone's pegged you at the scene of a crime there's not much you can do but trust the justice system to prove you innocent. However, that's a gamble, and just because you've been given a "not guilty" doesn't mean the effects won't follow you for the rest of your life.
Reddit user, u/danbrownskin, wanted to hear about the times when it wasn't you, seriously, it was someone else, when they asked: