People Who Regret Voting For Trump Share What Changed Their Mind.
No one wants to live with regret, but sometimes when you look at things in the cold light of day, you just can't help but wish you'd done things differently...
Many thanks to the Redditors who responded. You can check out more answers from the source at the end of this article.
1. My friend/ex- told me he voted for Trump about 3 weeks ago.
1 week ago his locker at the bowling alley (where he bowls on a league) got vandalized with "F-G" scrawled all over it...never had an issue with being gay before, despite living in a small MT town. He told me that was when he realized that he made a mistake.
2. My dad is regretting it because he relies heavily on the Affordable Care Act.
Republicans said they would replace it with something better, but they had 6 years to think of an alternative. They're already repealing Obamacare without any replacement. Or at least none that was disclosed to the public.
Repealing healthcare for Americans who depend on it to live will kill way more of our people than ISIS ever did. We need to get our priorities straight as a country and stop doing things out of spite against each other.
3. My sister in law was being pretty smug about voting for trump over christmas and then her mom explained to her that she was insured through the ACA and when she loses that it is very unlikely that she will be able to get insurance because of her preexisting condition.
You could see it finally hit her, especially when she realized that also meant her potential inheritance would be depleted by paying for medical expenses out of pocket.
4. His Twitter account. You're about to be the President of the United States and you're mad over what Meryl Streep said about you? Grow a pair. He really is thin skinned and completely delusional.
5. The people in his cabinet.
6. My coworker is a strong Trump supporter but even he is getting nervous about Trump's disregard for the intelligence community and the implications for national security. He is also really concerned about the way he is using Twitter post campaign.
7. How many of the policies that he could enact will harm America's National Parks.
8. I'm a Republican that didn't vote for Trump. The straw for me was disrespecting POWs. That is unacceptable as a commander in chief. Good commanders thank POWs for their strength and toughness, not call them worthless. Also he loves tariffs for some dumb reason and that is not good for economies.
9. I really feel like genuine, honest and bipartisan conversation about this election and the president-elect is nearly impossible.
10. I didn't actually vote for Trump, but I was telling everyone the day after that we should give him a chance. Than he announced he wasn't going to daily intelligence briefings, and I totally lost all faith in the guy.
11. I'm from an area where there's a surprising number of Trump supporters. I don't know a single one that regrets voting for him. I don't think people appreciate how much some Republicans hated Hillary. The fact that they contributed to her defeat will always be enough for them.
12. UK here. Im not eligible to answer the question, but the thing that has shocked me the most during Trump and Brexit, is the sacrifice their supporters are willing to make, just because of an unnecessary hatred towards immigration.
It absolutely baffles me, when it comes to things like "I rely on the ACA for healthcare but it's more important for me and my family that there's a giant wall between the US and mexico". In the UK it was "My family relies on EU donations to our local council, but I want out of the EU so there are less jobs going to immigrants."
13. My MIL voted Trump because, as she put it, "He's a businessman! He'll run this country like a business!"
Now that he's elected the cabinet, and possibly colluded with the Russians?
"....well, can you prove it?"
"Yes, MIL, the CIA are already on it."
"Well, they're not honest! Trump said...."
Then she went on a rant about how Obama "stirred up the blacks", and I tuned her out.
14. He won me back by picking Mattis.
He lost me again when it became clear he isn't going to listen to him.
15. I wasn't a Trump voter but my mom was. She however regrets it now because of who has been placed in his cabinet.
16. Probably all of the threads online, at least 20 a day, that ask why we don't support Trump anymore. Just seeing the same thread over and over finally made me think "you know what, I don't like Trump anymore".
17. I'm not regretting it per se. However I am beginning to grow extremely disappointed in the party as a whole and I'd like to see Trump challenge the status quo more than he has. I argue with liberals a bunch, but honestly I agree with most of their thinking.
The republican party is failing me as a young republican.
The old guard that makes up the money in the party and throws their weight around is unwilling to come to terms with the reality we are living in. And every so often I get into arguments with fellow republicans who say I am too liberal.
The republican party has always been labeled the country-club party for rich old white men. Well, that's mostly true. I've been to fundraisers for senators and the people there were in fact, well off white people. They detested Trump to the core and raved about the other candidates. So what we have here is an image problem.
Secondly, the issues that the republicans stand for. I'm a business conservative. That was the original republican. Small government and all that jazz. However we have drifted away from being the party of small government. We're now using the government to tell people how to live.
We're always seen as being at a war with Women, gays, minorities, everyone sees us as the party that is using the big arm of government to make people do things. That's not what the party was about. The party is supposed to be small federal government and more in line with states rights. If a state wants to legalize abortion, well I may not agree with it, but they voted to do that.
I'm regretting being labeled as something I am not. I'm not anti-gay. I'm not racist. I'm not something that many people label me as because of my political leanings.
I believe in climate change because I believe science is real, it's not some fairytale. I believe that if Adam and Steve want to get married and have lots of gay sex in their bedroom at night, they should be able to do that, it doesn't affect me. If an American citizen wants to exercise their right to vote I do not believe we should make that harder than it should be.
I am not regretting voting for Trump. I am regretting that Trump may not be able to branch out because he may have to walk party lines. That is where I start having a problem because I want to republican party to move to the left on the issues I stated before.
18. I don't really regret it knowing what my alternatives were (Seriously I would of rather had nearly anyone but Clinton/Trump), but his presence on Twitter is annoying. I had really thought he would drop off but he keeps embarrassing himself daily on there in my opinion.
I feel like I am more of a progressive republican. I wasn't hardcore Trump whatsoever but I still think I made the right choice, for me, at least. I am happy to have a reasonable discussion with anyone that thinks I am wrong.
19. Looked up Mike "I hate gays, and love Jesus too much" Pence's policies he proposed.
20. I never would have voted for Hillary. With that out of the way, I wanted three things when I voted for Trump. Stronger borders, a bolstered middle class and reform of the ACA.
Honestly, I didn't want the Wall, but did want better vetting processes. I'm not against immigration, I simply believe it should be done legally. His proposed border fence is fine, but I'm hoping for more concrete legislation regarding this in the future.
The investments from companies that I've seen looking into the U.S. Is an OK start to hopefully rejuvenating our flagging middle class. But it isn't enough, they need jobs! Millions are out of work and for every job posting , they get swamped with resumes. How does one standout in this environment? And do not get me started on the insane requirements for entry level positions these days
As for ACA, not having a backup plan is reckless and stupid. This isn't Trump's doing, but neither do I think that he will veto it. I wrote to my senator about this, urging them to think about the needs of their true constituents vs. the elite who support the insane "pay-in" plan that I've heard Trump wants to implement. People are going paycheck to paycheck, they don't need to worry about having enough money to cover their insulin for the month!
And his Cabinet selections have been abysmal! Were I in his shoes, I would have chosen people that were experts in these fields, no questions asked. Instead, we get a carnival sideshow of billionaires who are ridiculously out of touch with your average citizen, not even mentioning their unsuitability for the positions they have been appointed to.
I've also been made aware of potential policies that will affect LGBTQ individuals, including a "first amendment defense" act that seems as if it wants to make it legal for individuals to discriminate based on sexual orientation. I support LGBTQ rights, having friends and family within that group. I would never dream of taking anyone's rights away, so to have this being pushed is appalling.
This is not what I voted for.
Have you ever found yourself in an argument so stupid and/or pointless that you were sure you were being punked? Like you keep looking away from the other person to check your surroundings for places Ashton Kutcher and a camera crew could come popping out of?
You're not the only one.
u/Anti-hollowkid asked: What is the dumbest argument you've ever been in?Brace yourselves, folks. Some of these arguments are breathtakingly bonkers. The sheer number of people who are willing to argue with someone over provable facts and what that other person likes or doesn't like is just ... stunning. It's stunning, you guys. Just not in a good way.
I Know What I LikeGiphy
My wife and I once argued over whether or not I liked mustard on my hot dog. I was for me liking mustard, she was against me liking mustard.
The argument lasted way longer that you could ever imagine it would.
A Stair Step
My brother and I argued if our staircase had 13 or 14 steps, based on an argument about if the floor of the second floor counts as a stair-step or not. We still have no solution.
My dad is a stairbuilder and I spent many summers working at his warehouse, so I can clear this up. 14.
My husband and I have this thing where we only say "I love you" on Saturdays. Every other day it's "I love you, but only on Saturdays." I don't know how it started, but it's been going for 11 years now.
We're both shiftworkers, so sometimes we have to stop and think what day it actually is. We had an argument recently over whether it was Saturday or not. I said it was Saturday, he said it was Friday. It was Monday.
I remember when I was about 13 my parents had an hour-long shouting match that ended with them almost getting divorced. The issue? Whether or not the nation of Iraq has a coastline.
My mother arguing that Iraq had a coastline, while my stepdad argued that it did not. This was back in 2004, and they are still quite happily married to this day. That incident is something they look back on and laugh about, and both of them admit it was really a pretty stupid thing to argue over.
With an ex:
"I owe you $80 for the bills of ours that you pay, and you owe me $40 for the bills of ours that I paid. Here's $40 in cash; we're even."
She did not understand this.
I literally had to go get another $40 out of the ATM, and hand the $80 to her. Then I had her hand me the $40 she owed me.
"Now how much do you have in your hand?"
She still didn't understand.
She somehow has a college degree.
When we were kids my brother and I got in a physical fight because he said I like mini wheats and I insisted I didn't. His argument was that I always sang the mini wheats song and I was deeply offended that he wasn't aware that it was just stuck in my head but I hated the cereal. I actually did like the cereal I'm not sure why I was arguing with him about it but I remember how genuinely angry I was.
I'll tell you about the only legal trouble I've ever been in, the fight that got me arrested. It started over whether we should return a box of crayons or not, and to this day I don't have any idea how it escalated to the point of the cops being called, but they were and I was the one taken in.
My boyfriend insisted that when two people are in an argument and one makes a point so reasonable and logical the other one can't disagree with it - it's unfair. I tried, logically and reasonably, to explain several times why that is just winning the argument, proving your point thoroughly and is completely fair.
His answer was that I was being unfair.
How the ch in masochism is pronounced. My friend caught me saying "masoKism" while he would say "masoSYism."
To be fair, he grew up speaking French, in which the ch in masochism is pronounced in "his" way. But he insisted that I was the wrong one here and that was just infuriating.
A woman was adamant that looking at the big solar eclipse on the television was unsafe unless you were wearing glasses. She wouldn't believe us and insisted on emailing NASA to check.
A Non-Standard Ruler?
I worked for a company that made signs. We had a customer ask for signs that were 7mm wide that were to go on a door. Our sign makers figured the order meant inches because 7mm is pretty small, so made them 7 inches. I got a phone call from the customer who went mad at me for making them the wrong size. So I put a reorder through for 7 mm.
Argued with the sign makers over it but they eventually agreed to do it after I shown them the order in writing. I even had the customer put her complaint in writing, reiterating the size they wanted.
7mm signs went out and a day later I get the customer on the phone literally screaming at me.
Cue the dumb argument - we ended up having an argument over how big a millimetre is, and obviously everyone in the office were laughing, but this customer just wouldn't accept it and said we must be using a non-standard ruler to measure.
Ended up being escalating to the sales department manager who refused to issue a refund. We still don't know what they actually meant.
This Unusual Vegan Argument
Was in a pub with a few friends, and some random Dude dropped an ear, and somehow figured I'm vegan. Well, people like him are the reason I usually avoid mentioning it. He came up to me and insisted on starting a discussion about veganism. He claimed that by the end of it, I would be eating meat again.
He listed some stupid arguments, I told him I was not convinced and then tried to keep on drinking beer with my friends. He followed me, and wanted me to "try to convert him to a vegan." I stupidly listed some of my reasons thinking it would make him go away. He told me he still was not convinced, so I was like whatever. Again, I really just wanted to drink beer with my friends.
That dude followed me all night and expected me to try make him vegan. Doesn't matter what I said, and all the reasons that for me are obviously good enough to be vegan. He'd be just like "No, that doesn't convince me, therefore your argument and how you life is stupid."
Didn't matter how often I told him that I honestly don't care; 5 minutes later he would come up to me again "I'm still not vegan, so veganism is stupid, all your arguments were stupid, now give me a good reason to become vegan!" At one point, I was literally yelling at him that I don't give a single flying f about what he eats and why, that it's in no way my responsibility to "turn somebody vegan" and in no way his business what I eat.
Honestly, for that dude, I would have bought a whole ham, just to shove it up his stupid annoying face.
In college my roommate and I argued about a line in Monty Python & the Holy Grail. The scene with the Black Knight where the line "Alright, we'll call it a draw" is uttered. We argued about who said that line, whether it was King Arthur or the Black Knight.
It went on for hours longer than it should have because I was stubborn and refused to admit I was wrong.
Albert or ArnoldGiphy
Whether Albert Einstein or Arnold Schwarzenegger would be more useful to have around during a Zombie apocalypse. How on earth would Albert Einstein come in handy!?
Below Sea Level
I live on an island and when you go upland and you look out the sea looks like it's higher than or on the same level as the land. It's just a weird perspective thing because of the horizon. One day some kid says that it's because the island is under sea level.
I'm like wtf bro all of us would be with the fishes. He argues that no that's not true and if I just go upland I'll see. We then spend a good 5 minutes of my time arguing about it until I decided to leave this kid in his stupidity. He even said we shouldn't believe everything adults tell us and sometimes we need to think for ourselves.
This kid was older than me and was going to a good school. Lost my respect for him ever since then.
Someone tried to fight with me over how to spell my name.
Now, my name is in a lot of languages with slightly different spellings. I would have accepted any of those spellings, but this one was just... Not even close. It didn't make any logical sense.
An analogous example is if my name was Thomas and someone was insisting it was spelled Tomash. And not just the name Thomas in general, but that me specifically, on my birth certificate, was named Tomash. I know how to spell my own name.
I swear to god, it went on for like an hour.
Whales Are Mammals
I was in an online chat room one day, and we were talking about whales. I commented on how whales are mammals and the next thing you know, someone was arguing with me and trying to convince me that a whale was a fish.
Stupid microwaves. Having a man child talk down to me about how microwaves work only for him to google it and prove me right. He slept on the sofa that night.
My friend keeps telling me that the norm is that a person should shower once a week. This has been going on for years. I'm almost convinced he's trolling me.
No Balloons For Grandma
My cousin and I argued over a balloon going to Heaven. We were at his big sisters prom send off and he let a balloon go and it went high into the sky.
He then said this balloon will go up past space and go to Heaven and reach grandma (God rest her soul). And I was like no it's not and it's probably not even gonna reach space. Releasing balloons is terrible for the environment and kills/harms so much wildlife.
He got really mad and defensive and started telling me to google it and do my research and I'm like I don't have to google it you idiot. He was mad at me for a good week.
Spontaneous Dolphin ExistenceGiphy
How dolphins reproduced. It took me a few solid minutes of explaining to her that dolphins have reproductive organs and that they did not just pop into existence. The argument began with her saying she wanted to work with sea creatures.
Personally, I hope she was messing with me cause I lost a little faith in humanity that day.
I repeatedly had the argument with a friend over whether roosters were chickens. She was convinced that only the females were chickens (hens). We were 18 at the time.
Me and my friend were drinking underage, we ended up in an argument of whether lightning McQueen's eyes were blue or green. Somehow throughout the whole thing both of us never thought to straight up google a picture.
But ... Ice Floats
Woman wanted ice on the bottom of her drink.
Now read that sentence again and try to imagine arguing with that particular brand of stupid.
Time Zones Exist
Coworker claimed that it was the same time of day and the same season on the whole globe. Had to get 4 coworkers to confirm to him that time zones do in fact exist.
My brother is colorblind. And he CONSTANTLY tries to correct me on what color things are.
"Hey could you hand me that red _____?"
"no, it's red"
"YOU CANT EVEN KNOW"
It is the base of our most common and heated arguments.
I'm late, but I saw this question and instantly remembered that I was booted from a Facebook group because I called someone out on a lie that was not only bull, but extremely pointless. She was friends with the moderator and they made the case that my argument over such a little lie was more of a problem than the lie itself (though they didn't refer to it as a lie.)
The woman said that she used to babysit for Andre 3000 and that his name was Andre 2000 - but he changed it after the year 2000 had passed. This was so easily disproven it was ridiculous. Their debut album came out in 1994 and he was already going by Andre 3000 at that time.
The argument wasn't a huge long drawn out thing, but the fact that either of us were on Facebook at separate times meant that the responses were over a long period of time so this argument lasted a few days.
It was stupid.
Stars Like Our Sun
I was arguing with my grandpa about stars he didn't believe that there are other stars like our sun. Basically he thought there is only the sun, the moon and the earth.
I have a degree in history. I mostly focused on nationalism. Wrote a 50 page paper on it and Richard Nixon with around 50 100 sources. Looked at micro film for hours on end. Part of the paper focused on how Nixon being chair of the house committee of Unamerican Activities was used as a powerful weapon to use against political enemies. It also inspired Joe McCarthy. Have had people tell me I was wrong and Nixon was never elected to a position besides the president and Joe McCarthy came before Nixon. I stopped trying to talk history to people.
I also know quite a bit about the history of the Balkans its amazing how many Serbs refuse to believe Tito did anything wrong.
Wrote 100 page paper on nationalism in Israel. Its frustrating to talk about because for some reason a lot of people think Palestinian firing rockets randomly into Israel is ok but if Israel retaliates the people get up in arms over a targeted air strike that kills 3 people.
Balloon to Heaven
My cousin and I argued over a balloon going to Heaven. We were at his big sisters prom send off and he let a balloon go and it went high into the sky. He then said this balloon will go up past space and go to Heaven and reach grandma (God rest her soul). And I was like no it's not and it's probably not even gonna reach space.
And he got really mad and defensive and started telling me to google it and do my research and I'm like I don't have to google it you idiot. He was mad at me for a good week.
I got into an argument with a co-worker over how we were attaching two pages of a letter together: small binder clips or paper clips.
He felt that paper clips would leave a "dent" in the paper when removed, but binder clips won't. He refused to staple them together. I felt that binder clips would also leave a "dent", so we might as well just use the paper clips.
It ended with him saying: "Do what you want [me], I don't care!" and storming off.
Once got accused of faking being Jewish. Why? I have no clue. We argued over the course of a month, any time I'd bring it up and she heard about it, she'd begin going after me for "faking it".
My mother's side is ethnically Jewish. Grandparents were practicing.
3 friends and I once got into an argument about how to pronounce Nutella. It lasted for about 3-4 months. It was hilarious how serious we took it, it'd get heated but never for real serious.
I think someone even called the company that made it to check, or that may have been for the Cheetos company. We were really bored in high school.
Late to the party, but there it is.
I'm a manager at a small store. We're only 4 working there, so my team and I grew very close and we joke around a lot. Once during a slow shift, my employee and I had an argument because we were looking at the lingerie boxes, and I thought that two specific boxes had the same woman on it, but she was 100% positive they weren't the same person.
Looking back, I don't know why it was such a big deal to us at the time, but we even called another employee who lives across the street to come and tell us what the heck was up with that. Turns out I was right, and she was pretty salty about it. It was a great night.
Wicked Witch of the West
I almost got into an argument with an old girlfriend over Glinda the good witch from Oz. She insisted that Glinda was manipulating Dorothy to assassinate the Wicked Witch of the West and convince the Wizard to leave to create a political void she could fill.
I conceded the issue when I heard the whole premise because I thought it was too damn stupid to get worked up over.
Keep Your Hands to Yourself
Just the other day I legit got in an argument with my co-workers on why I don't like my butt being grabbed by anyone (I'm a guy). Seriously.
They went on about "I don't mind it. Mike and I do it all the time and we don't care." Yeah, that's nice dude, but I'm not you, and there's something called "Keep your hands to yourself" (which was taught to a good portion of us growing up). Just like how Karen wouldn't like it if I touched her boobs or her grabbing your crotch or frankly ANY area you wouldn't like being grabbed, keep away. In general, you should not be touching me in any areas after I've told you not to several times before.
So unless you're sleeping me or dating me, keep your damn hands off my toosh.
My best friend and I argued over whether or not telekinesis was possible. Her argument was that humans don't yet know what the human brain at 100% usage was capable of, and that telekinesis was inside the possibilities.
I said the brain does use 100%, just at different times.
We didn't speak to each other for four days.
How dolphins reproduced and whether or not ghost existed (back to back with the same person). It took me a few solid minutes of explaining to her that dolphins have reproductive organs and that they did not just pop into existence (the argument began with her saying she wanted to work with sea creatures).
How it shifted to the existence of ghosts is a solid and reasonable question to ask (I don't remember why). I had to then proceed to tell her that ghost hunting TV shows do not constitute as undeniable evidence.
Personally, I hope she was messing with me cause I lost a little faith in humanity that day. This was in high school SO... hopefully she was kidding.
Dogs and ChocolateGiphy
I told this stupid woman that chocolate is toxic to dogs. She went on to tell me how a little bit will just make them hyper and then they will calm down. I told her to google it. Her and her bf shut right up. Now they have a kid. Good luck, Jeremy and Andrea. morons.
I should also add that this argument started because Jeremy was giving his tiny dog chocolate and I told him it was toxic.
Is water wet?
My roommate and I have a recurring argument over whether or not water is wet l, and whether or not a person is considered wet underwater.
For the record, it is no to both questions.
A kid a church telling me about the mission trip I went on. Not only was I not on that trip, but I had never been on any mission trip. We were good friends, so it's not like he would've mistaken someone else for me.
He insisted I was there as if an entire week long trip would just fall out of my memory. He even had stories of things we'd done together. I'm not sure if he thought I was lying, joking, stupid, or crazy, but I was pretty sure he was some combination thereof.
One time I got into a shouting match with my mom and little brother in the car. The issue? The names of the two-headed dragon from the PBS kids afternoon show Dragon Tales. I swore it was Zack and Macie.
It was actually Zak and Wheezie. I don't even remember why we were yelling about it.
Green Or Yellow?
When I was about 15 or so my mother and I spent about 20-30 minutes arguing about the color of a shirt. We agreed it was blue/green, but to me it was just a shade more blue, while to her it was just a bit more green.
Turns out, your eyeballs yellow as you age and hers were 24 years yellower than mine, so I think that skewed her color vision.
Stars In Their MultitudeGiphy
I once got in an argument over whether or not a line from the song "Stars" in Les Mis says "...but mine is the way of the lord" or "mine is the way of the law".
I didn't even really care what he thought but he was so adamant and cocky that it got me heated. By the end of it we were shouting at each other and I had to apologize, which I think is what he wanted the whole time.
My brother is colorblind. And he CONSTANTLY tries to correct me on what color things are.
"Hey could you hand me that red _____?" "that's orange" "no, it's red" "orange" "YOU CANT EVEN KNOW".
It is the base of our most common and heated arguments.
About five years ago, my girlfriend (now wife) once had a very intense argument about whether or not hot water cleaned things better than cold water.
She genuinely believed that water temperature didn't matter. This is someone who has not one, but two masters degrees.
We argued for something like 2 hours, and we seriously almost broke up over the whole thing.
I had an argument with a girl IN THE MIDDLE OF A BIOLOGY CLASS in high school about how humans are not mammals. She thought a human was a human and we are not mammals because "mammals are animals and humans are not animals"
I tried explaining to her the difference between reptiles and mammals and how humans fall under the mammal category to try and educate her... but she just wouldn't listen.
I still have no idea why the BIOLOGY teacher did not get involved...
Solid Or Liquid?
Some classmates and I got into a heated debate as to whether or not the human body could count as a soup, salad, or sandwich. The teacher got mad at us, but hey! All we were doing was watching a movie.
For the record, my logic lays with soup- Liquid contained within a solid, at a hot temperature.