Older People Confess The One Thing They Like Best About Millennials.
Older people on Reddit were asked: "What do you like best about the younger generation?" These are some of the best answers.
1/25 I like how these kids coming up actually give a [crap] about each other. Has there ever been a time in history when racism, homophobia, abuse, bullying, sexism, and just generally being a [jerk] were so universally demonized in the general culture?
2/25 Thanks to the Internet, they've been exposed to a lot more of the world than I could ever have dreamed of when I was a kid. This has made them more tolerant and accepting of other cultures. I'm quite proud of how easily my kids will befriend people from different backgrounds without giving it a second thought.
3/25 I think you have all grown up in the midst of a polarized culture and come out, surprisingly, with pragmatic views much more often than your elders. I have many peers and relatives who are still posting political screeds on Facebook, but I rarely see that from the current generation. You guys know you live in a crowded world and you just seem to get along better with people.
4/25 Mostly, I like that (most of) you haven't thrown in the towel. This is such a hard time to be young. I don't know if I could have cut it if I had to live at home for years after college and work in jobs that didn't challenge me. And yet, I see the kids of this generation really stepping up. Space X, alternative fuels, 3D printers...all big answers to big problems.
5/25 I like how they stay off my lawn.
6/25 Probably won't believe me but way less violent. I read a lot about bullying but it has probably become more psychological and less physical.
7/25 Honestly, I like how well and willingly they communicate with people of older generations.
When the Baby Boomers (my parents, young people's grandparents) were young, their equivalent of "#YOLO" was, literally, "Don't trust anyone over 30." The standing opinion was that people over 30 at best weren't with it, and at worst, were completely full of [crap] and trying to pull one over on you, sublimate you into proper society and kill your dreams.
Needless to say, growing up as the first wave, Gen X children of the "Don't trust anyone over 30" generation didn't make for a lot of awesomeness in the communication department. It was replicated in a somewhat diluted fashion. "Parents Just Don't Understand." (Thanks, Fresh Prince!)
But now, it seems like teenagers and 20-somethings will actually ASK me for my opinion and treat my advice like wisdom, not proof that I'm inherently disconnected and untrustworthy. It's nice! I feel like this bond might even help a few 20-somethings avoid the same stupid mistakes I made at that age because it was still considered gross to talk to older people and treat them seriously.
8/25 I love that you are starting to think beyond disruptive technology and embracing things that have the potential to disrupt society. Yes, things like Anonymous and Occupy are important, but I think it's equally important that young people are inventing things like car sharing and Kickstarter.
9/25 Their social progressiveness. My sense is that bigotry and hate is more highly concentrated in older generations.
10/25 You kids can handle a much more complex Pokemon metagame than I could. Not just the newer typings, but the movepools, held items, abilities, and like 600 new Pokemon. That's a lot of variables to plan your team around!
11/25 I'm a private tutor for hs and college kids and was briefly a public school teacher. Many are self-motivated and savvy enough to at least google topics of interest. Many are more skeptical than my generation. Most are capable of managing their own time and not afraid to text or email about scheduling.
12/25 The attitude that young people have towards mental health is vastly different than most Baby Boomers. Young people are going to therapists, encouraging others to go to therapy, and talking openly about their own mental health in ways that the older generation doesn't seen capable of.
13/25 I have to hire and fire people at my company. I go on people's Facebook pages and see what kind of people they are. The younger they are, the more they post. I know who's trash talking their previous employer and why, if someone is late or no show I generally get the truth through social media [sites]. They are so good with technology and yet they show no common sense when using it. Either way it makes my job much much easier.
14/25 I really like the younger generation. Most of the ones I know in their 20s and early 30s are focusing on whatever quality they can give their lives, regardless of their financial situation. I know a lot of it is imposed upon them by a [bad] economy, but instead of sitting around whinging, they are going out and doing what they can with what they have.
Can't afford a car? That bike becomes a very sweet ride. Can't afford to vacation the Pacific Northwest with a trailer and such? Ok, cheapest transit up to the north, and then bike trip down the Rocky Mountain trail with a backpack, with some work along the way to pay for some little extras. I haven't seen the boomers do much of this when it wasn't a "lifestyle choice". I've seen the younger gen value making the most out of every moment they can with who they choose to share them with, and while I've heard that referred to as narcissism, I haven't seen that. Caring very much about the time and moments you have and who you share them with matters.
Best roasters in town? Younger gen. Best bakery? Younger gen. Best bike shop? Younger gen. Best firearms instructor? Younger gen. I could go on, but a lot of these people are and were never afraid of hard work, they just want to make that hard work count for themselves and their own futures, more than someone else's. I get the best and most friendly service at these establishments, and there is never any question about whether I'm getting the best quality product.
15/25 With the younger generation's anti-prejudice beliefs about everything from homophobia to racism and sexism, plus instant global communication, this generation is more capable of truly loving one another than any in the past.
16/25 The fact that things which used to be considered nerdy are now more socially acceptable. Everyone games, to some extent, for instance.
17/25 What amazes me about kids these days is their ability to learn new things so quickly, the overall adaptability, especially when it comes to technology.
I guess being immersed in it from day one allows for a quicker learning process, but I am much slower even it comes to learning new things.
18/25 They seem a lot more genuine in many ways. People my age tend to cloak ourselves in a protective layer of irony and detachment rather than actually feel anything. Frankly, it's exhausting. I'm glad sincerity has come back in style.
19/25 They don't judge each other as much. I worked at a pretty rough school, and although I was with ages 5 all the way to 11/12, I spent most of my time with the 9-12 age group. And even though some of them had some bad, judgemental parents and a rough home life, very rarely would they call each other names. Most of their disagreements and fights revolved around actions, not character traits, which was a pretty big change from when I was their age.
20/25 They believe in equal rights for all. These [politicians] in office are 50 and 60 and out of touch. I think the world will be a much better place when the 20 year olds are 60.
21/25 As a whole they have fantastic teeth, much better and ubiquitous orthodontia.
22/25 There's so many things to celebrate about the youngest generation. There has been and always have been bullies. But today's youngins video these nasty people and prove they are what they are or did what they did. Youngins are more likely to find and give help in anonymous internet crowds. Youngins have grown up with information at their fingertips and are far more willing to argue and fight against authority.
I believe the decrease in hard core right wingers and religious fanatics is due to the fact that a youngin can easily fact check things that are told to them. Now mean people and "politician/businessperson" are a stereotype and "victims" are supported in media, online, and other areas where public opinion is noted. With Facebook, youtube, and texting secrets are less likely to be kept.
Youngin are taught in school to work collaboratively, think creatively, ask questions and solve problems. Youngins have grown up in a world that is unstable and the US has been at war for most of their lives. They are harder, more cynical and yet they believe in and support each other. This gives me hope.
23/25 Their access to information gives them the ability to be the most informed generation in History. A child in a rural area no [longer] has to [rely] on their drunk uncle's advice on sex, sociology, politics, and music.
24/25 I will always talk crap about Hipsters. But, in all honesty, it's the best fad to ever happen. The Emos didn't really do anything besides open up sexual ambiguity and perhaps minutely raise awareness of depression. Punk Rockers (which I may or may not have been) acted political but really were just angry kids. Hippies... drugs.
Hipsters are politically active, creative/crafty, socially-accepting, and conservational. Veganism, vegetarianism, supporting local business, buying used products... Maybe they do it to be cool. Maybe they genuinely care. Doesn't matter to me. Thanks for being hipsters. Your pretentiousness is worth it.
25/25 I like the optimism and liberalism of youth. In their eyes, there is no reason the world can't be saved. I miss that feeling.
Have you ever found yourself in an argument so stupid and/or pointless that you were sure you were being punked? Like you keep looking away from the other person to check your surroundings for places Ashton Kutcher and a camera crew could come popping out of?
You're not the only one.
u/Anti-hollowkid asked: What is the dumbest argument you've ever been in?Brace yourselves, folks. Some of these arguments are breathtakingly bonkers. The sheer number of people who are willing to argue with someone over provable facts and what that other person likes or doesn't like is just ... stunning. It's stunning, you guys. Just not in a good way.
I Know What I LikeGiphy
My wife and I once argued over whether or not I liked mustard on my hot dog. I was for me liking mustard, she was against me liking mustard.
The argument lasted way longer that you could ever imagine it would.
A Stair Step
My brother and I argued if our staircase had 13 or 14 steps, based on an argument about if the floor of the second floor counts as a stair-step or not. We still have no solution.
My dad is a stairbuilder and I spent many summers working at his warehouse, so I can clear this up. 14.
My husband and I have this thing where we only say "I love you" on Saturdays. Every other day it's "I love you, but only on Saturdays." I don't know how it started, but it's been going for 11 years now.
We're both shiftworkers, so sometimes we have to stop and think what day it actually is. We had an argument recently over whether it was Saturday or not. I said it was Saturday, he said it was Friday. It was Monday.
I remember when I was about 13 my parents had an hour-long shouting match that ended with them almost getting divorced. The issue? Whether or not the nation of Iraq has a coastline.
My mother arguing that Iraq had a coastline, while my stepdad argued that it did not. This was back in 2004, and they are still quite happily married to this day. That incident is something they look back on and laugh about, and both of them admit it was really a pretty stupid thing to argue over.
With an ex:
"I owe you $80 for the bills of ours that you pay, and you owe me $40 for the bills of ours that I paid. Here's $40 in cash; we're even."
She did not understand this.
I literally had to go get another $40 out of the ATM, and hand the $80 to her. Then I had her hand me the $40 she owed me.
"Now how much do you have in your hand?"
She still didn't understand.
She somehow has a college degree.
When we were kids my brother and I got in a physical fight because he said I like mini wheats and I insisted I didn't. His argument was that I always sang the mini wheats song and I was deeply offended that he wasn't aware that it was just stuck in my head but I hated the cereal. I actually did like the cereal I'm not sure why I was arguing with him about it but I remember how genuinely angry I was.
I'll tell you about the only legal trouble I've ever been in, the fight that got me arrested. It started over whether we should return a box of crayons or not, and to this day I don't have any idea how it escalated to the point of the cops being called, but they were and I was the one taken in.
My boyfriend insisted that when two people are in an argument and one makes a point so reasonable and logical the other one can't disagree with it - it's unfair. I tried, logically and reasonably, to explain several times why that is just winning the argument, proving your point thoroughly and is completely fair.
His answer was that I was being unfair.
How the ch in masochism is pronounced. My friend caught me saying "masoKism" while he would say "masoSYism."
To be fair, he grew up speaking French, in which the ch in masochism is pronounced in "his" way. But he insisted that I was the wrong one here and that was just infuriating.
A woman was adamant that looking at the big solar eclipse on the television was unsafe unless you were wearing glasses. She wouldn't believe us and insisted on emailing NASA to check.
A Non-Standard Ruler?
I worked for a company that made signs. We had a customer ask for signs that were 7mm wide that were to go on a door. Our sign makers figured the order meant inches because 7mm is pretty small, so made them 7 inches. I got a phone call from the customer who went mad at me for making them the wrong size. So I put a reorder through for 7 mm.
Argued with the sign makers over it but they eventually agreed to do it after I shown them the order in writing. I even had the customer put her complaint in writing, reiterating the size they wanted.
7mm signs went out and a day later I get the customer on the phone literally screaming at me.
Cue the dumb argument - we ended up having an argument over how big a millimetre is, and obviously everyone in the office were laughing, but this customer just wouldn't accept it and said we must be using a non-standard ruler to measure.
Ended up being escalating to the sales department manager who refused to issue a refund. We still don't know what they actually meant.
This Unusual Vegan Argument
Was in a pub with a few friends, and some random Dude dropped an ear, and somehow figured I'm vegan. Well, people like him are the reason I usually avoid mentioning it. He came up to me and insisted on starting a discussion about veganism. He claimed that by the end of it, I would be eating meat again.
He listed some stupid arguments, I told him I was not convinced and then tried to keep on drinking beer with my friends. He followed me, and wanted me to "try to convert him to a vegan." I stupidly listed some of my reasons thinking it would make him go away. He told me he still was not convinced, so I was like whatever. Again, I really just wanted to drink beer with my friends.
That dude followed me all night and expected me to try make him vegan. Doesn't matter what I said, and all the reasons that for me are obviously good enough to be vegan. He'd be just like "No, that doesn't convince me, therefore your argument and how you life is stupid."
Didn't matter how often I told him that I honestly don't care; 5 minutes later he would come up to me again "I'm still not vegan, so veganism is stupid, all your arguments were stupid, now give me a good reason to become vegan!" At one point, I was literally yelling at him that I don't give a single flying f about what he eats and why, that it's in no way my responsibility to "turn somebody vegan" and in no way his business what I eat.
Honestly, for that dude, I would have bought a whole ham, just to shove it up his stupid annoying face.
In college my roommate and I argued about a line in Monty Python & the Holy Grail. The scene with the Black Knight where the line "Alright, we'll call it a draw" is uttered. We argued about who said that line, whether it was King Arthur or the Black Knight.
It went on for hours longer than it should have because I was stubborn and refused to admit I was wrong.
Albert or ArnoldGiphy
Whether Albert Einstein or Arnold Schwarzenegger would be more useful to have around during a Zombie apocalypse. How on earth would Albert Einstein come in handy!?
Below Sea Level
I live on an island and when you go upland and you look out the sea looks like it's higher than or on the same level as the land. It's just a weird perspective thing because of the horizon. One day some kid says that it's because the island is under sea level.
I'm like wtf bro all of us would be with the fishes. He argues that no that's not true and if I just go upland I'll see. We then spend a good 5 minutes of my time arguing about it until I decided to leave this kid in his stupidity. He even said we shouldn't believe everything adults tell us and sometimes we need to think for ourselves.
This kid was older than me and was going to a good school. Lost my respect for him ever since then.
Someone tried to fight with me over how to spell my name.
Now, my name is in a lot of languages with slightly different spellings. I would have accepted any of those spellings, but this one was just... Not even close. It didn't make any logical sense.
An analogous example is if my name was Thomas and someone was insisting it was spelled Tomash. And not just the name Thomas in general, but that me specifically, on my birth certificate, was named Tomash. I know how to spell my own name.
I swear to god, it went on for like an hour.
Whales Are Mammals
I was in an online chat room one day, and we were talking about whales. I commented on how whales are mammals and the next thing you know, someone was arguing with me and trying to convince me that a whale was a fish.
Stupid microwaves. Having a man child talk down to me about how microwaves work only for him to google it and prove me right. He slept on the sofa that night.
My friend keeps telling me that the norm is that a person should shower once a week. This has been going on for years. I'm almost convinced he's trolling me.
No Balloons For Grandma
My cousin and I argued over a balloon going to Heaven. We were at his big sisters prom send off and he let a balloon go and it went high into the sky.
He then said this balloon will go up past space and go to Heaven and reach grandma (God rest her soul). And I was like no it's not and it's probably not even gonna reach space. Releasing balloons is terrible for the environment and kills/harms so much wildlife.
He got really mad and defensive and started telling me to google it and do my research and I'm like I don't have to google it you idiot. He was mad at me for a good week.
Spontaneous Dolphin ExistenceGiphy
How dolphins reproduced. It took me a few solid minutes of explaining to her that dolphins have reproductive organs and that they did not just pop into existence. The argument began with her saying she wanted to work with sea creatures.
Personally, I hope she was messing with me cause I lost a little faith in humanity that day.
I repeatedly had the argument with a friend over whether roosters were chickens. She was convinced that only the females were chickens (hens). We were 18 at the time.
Me and my friend were drinking underage, we ended up in an argument of whether lightning McQueen's eyes were blue or green. Somehow throughout the whole thing both of us never thought to straight up google a picture.
But ... Ice Floats
Woman wanted ice on the bottom of her drink.
Now read that sentence again and try to imagine arguing with that particular brand of stupid.
Time Zones Exist
Coworker claimed that it was the same time of day and the same season on the whole globe. Had to get 4 coworkers to confirm to him that time zones do in fact exist.
My brother is colorblind. And he CONSTANTLY tries to correct me on what color things are.
"Hey could you hand me that red _____?"
"no, it's red"
"YOU CANT EVEN KNOW"
It is the base of our most common and heated arguments.
I'm late, but I saw this question and instantly remembered that I was booted from a Facebook group because I called someone out on a lie that was not only bull, but extremely pointless. She was friends with the moderator and they made the case that my argument over such a little lie was more of a problem than the lie itself (though they didn't refer to it as a lie.)
The woman said that she used to babysit for Andre 3000 and that his name was Andre 2000 - but he changed it after the year 2000 had passed. This was so easily disproven it was ridiculous. Their debut album came out in 1994 and he was already going by Andre 3000 at that time.
The argument wasn't a huge long drawn out thing, but the fact that either of us were on Facebook at separate times meant that the responses were over a long period of time so this argument lasted a few days.
It was stupid.
Stars Like Our Sun
I was arguing with my grandpa about stars he didn't believe that there are other stars like our sun. Basically he thought there is only the sun, the moon and the earth.
I have a degree in history. I mostly focused on nationalism. Wrote a 50 page paper on it and Richard Nixon with around 50 100 sources. Looked at micro film for hours on end. Part of the paper focused on how Nixon being chair of the house committee of Unamerican Activities was used as a powerful weapon to use against political enemies. It also inspired Joe McCarthy. Have had people tell me I was wrong and Nixon was never elected to a position besides the president and Joe McCarthy came before Nixon. I stopped trying to talk history to people.
I also know quite a bit about the history of the Balkans its amazing how many Serbs refuse to believe Tito did anything wrong.
Wrote 100 page paper on nationalism in Israel. Its frustrating to talk about because for some reason a lot of people think Palestinian firing rockets randomly into Israel is ok but if Israel retaliates the people get up in arms over a targeted air strike that kills 3 people.
Balloon to Heaven
My cousin and I argued over a balloon going to Heaven. We were at his big sisters prom send off and he let a balloon go and it went high into the sky. He then said this balloon will go up past space and go to Heaven and reach grandma (God rest her soul). And I was like no it's not and it's probably not even gonna reach space.
And he got really mad and defensive and started telling me to google it and do my research and I'm like I don't have to google it you idiot. He was mad at me for a good week.
I got into an argument with a co-worker over how we were attaching two pages of a letter together: small binder clips or paper clips.
He felt that paper clips would leave a "dent" in the paper when removed, but binder clips won't. He refused to staple them together. I felt that binder clips would also leave a "dent", so we might as well just use the paper clips.
It ended with him saying: "Do what you want [me], I don't care!" and storming off.
Once got accused of faking being Jewish. Why? I have no clue. We argued over the course of a month, any time I'd bring it up and she heard about it, she'd begin going after me for "faking it".
My mother's side is ethnically Jewish. Grandparents were practicing.
3 friends and I once got into an argument about how to pronounce Nutella. It lasted for about 3-4 months. It was hilarious how serious we took it, it'd get heated but never for real serious.
I think someone even called the company that made it to check, or that may have been for the Cheetos company. We were really bored in high school.
Late to the party, but there it is.
I'm a manager at a small store. We're only 4 working there, so my team and I grew very close and we joke around a lot. Once during a slow shift, my employee and I had an argument because we were looking at the lingerie boxes, and I thought that two specific boxes had the same woman on it, but she was 100% positive they weren't the same person.
Looking back, I don't know why it was such a big deal to us at the time, but we even called another employee who lives across the street to come and tell us what the heck was up with that. Turns out I was right, and she was pretty salty about it. It was a great night.
Wicked Witch of the West
I almost got into an argument with an old girlfriend over Glinda the good witch from Oz. She insisted that Glinda was manipulating Dorothy to assassinate the Wicked Witch of the West and convince the Wizard to leave to create a political void she could fill.
I conceded the issue when I heard the whole premise because I thought it was too damn stupid to get worked up over.
Keep Your Hands to Yourself
Just the other day I legit got in an argument with my co-workers on why I don't like my butt being grabbed by anyone (I'm a guy). Seriously.
They went on about "I don't mind it. Mike and I do it all the time and we don't care." Yeah, that's nice dude, but I'm not you, and there's something called "Keep your hands to yourself" (which was taught to a good portion of us growing up). Just like how Karen wouldn't like it if I touched her boobs or her grabbing your crotch or frankly ANY area you wouldn't like being grabbed, keep away. In general, you should not be touching me in any areas after I've told you not to several times before.
So unless you're sleeping me or dating me, keep your damn hands off my toosh.
My best friend and I argued over whether or not telekinesis was possible. Her argument was that humans don't yet know what the human brain at 100% usage was capable of, and that telekinesis was inside the possibilities.
I said the brain does use 100%, just at different times.
We didn't speak to each other for four days.
How dolphins reproduced and whether or not ghost existed (back to back with the same person). It took me a few solid minutes of explaining to her that dolphins have reproductive organs and that they did not just pop into existence (the argument began with her saying she wanted to work with sea creatures).
How it shifted to the existence of ghosts is a solid and reasonable question to ask (I don't remember why). I had to then proceed to tell her that ghost hunting TV shows do not constitute as undeniable evidence.
Personally, I hope she was messing with me cause I lost a little faith in humanity that day. This was in high school SO... hopefully she was kidding.
Dogs and ChocolateGiphy
I told this stupid woman that chocolate is toxic to dogs. She went on to tell me how a little bit will just make them hyper and then they will calm down. I told her to google it. Her and her bf shut right up. Now they have a kid. Good luck, Jeremy and Andrea. morons.
I should also add that this argument started because Jeremy was giving his tiny dog chocolate and I told him it was toxic.
Is water wet?
My roommate and I have a recurring argument over whether or not water is wet l, and whether or not a person is considered wet underwater.
For the record, it is no to both questions.
A kid a church telling me about the mission trip I went on. Not only was I not on that trip, but I had never been on any mission trip. We were good friends, so it's not like he would've mistaken someone else for me.
He insisted I was there as if an entire week long trip would just fall out of my memory. He even had stories of things we'd done together. I'm not sure if he thought I was lying, joking, stupid, or crazy, but I was pretty sure he was some combination thereof.
One time I got into a shouting match with my mom and little brother in the car. The issue? The names of the two-headed dragon from the PBS kids afternoon show Dragon Tales. I swore it was Zack and Macie.
It was actually Zak and Wheezie. I don't even remember why we were yelling about it.
Green Or Yellow?
When I was about 15 or so my mother and I spent about 20-30 minutes arguing about the color of a shirt. We agreed it was blue/green, but to me it was just a shade more blue, while to her it was just a bit more green.
Turns out, your eyeballs yellow as you age and hers were 24 years yellower than mine, so I think that skewed her color vision.
Stars In Their MultitudeGiphy
I once got in an argument over whether or not a line from the song "Stars" in Les Mis says "...but mine is the way of the lord" or "mine is the way of the law".
I didn't even really care what he thought but he was so adamant and cocky that it got me heated. By the end of it we were shouting at each other and I had to apologize, which I think is what he wanted the whole time.
My brother is colorblind. And he CONSTANTLY tries to correct me on what color things are.
"Hey could you hand me that red _____?" "that's orange" "no, it's red" "orange" "YOU CANT EVEN KNOW".
It is the base of our most common and heated arguments.
About five years ago, my girlfriend (now wife) once had a very intense argument about whether or not hot water cleaned things better than cold water.
She genuinely believed that water temperature didn't matter. This is someone who has not one, but two masters degrees.
We argued for something like 2 hours, and we seriously almost broke up over the whole thing.
I had an argument with a girl IN THE MIDDLE OF A BIOLOGY CLASS in high school about how humans are not mammals. She thought a human was a human and we are not mammals because "mammals are animals and humans are not animals"
I tried explaining to her the difference between reptiles and mammals and how humans fall under the mammal category to try and educate her... but she just wouldn't listen.
I still have no idea why the BIOLOGY teacher did not get involved...
Solid Or Liquid?
Some classmates and I got into a heated debate as to whether or not the human body could count as a soup, salad, or sandwich. The teacher got mad at us, but hey! All we were doing was watching a movie.
For the record, my logic lays with soup- Liquid contained within a solid, at a hot temperature.