Just because we're neighbors doesn't mean we have to be friends. If we end up friends great but if not, it's probably because you're a nutjob. Or maybe it's me, whatever. In fact there are things we are best not knowing about the residents next door. Some people's secrets, actions and private lives can lead anyone of us to be a participant in a gory Dateline NBC episode. I don't want to be witness or victim. Unfortunately, sometimes our friendly "cul-de-sac" buddies can make it impossible to ignore them.